Anger and peace are like different sides of same coin. You need to know which one to use for a better living.
Anger is just an emotion which can be good from only one perspective. From, the other perspective it’s the dangerous expression one can ever express.
Have you ever felt like, you should have been in control while you’re angry. But, you would have failed again and again. Do u know the reason why? Its simply because, you have never tried being calm.
You may ask “what?? Seriously?? How can you be calm while you’re angry?”.
My answer is simply, just right before you getting angry think of being calm. Even, if you’re exploding from inside, tell you’re mind to stay calm.
Every one in this busy world are angry on many things every day, every minute and every second.
Our mind is so adapted towards anger and it has literally poisoned every part of nerve system in our brain. Result being, self hate, being egoistic and mostly alone.
There is always other side of the coin which you failed to explore. We don’t have time to explore the other side and we are trapped and are insanely suffering.
There is always ways to handle such anger issues.
I would like to mention two important places where you can handle anger and be different.
Yes, one of the top most important place where anger is widespread. Its a disease in here. Most, lose there jobs due to anger. Most suffer from within.
The cure and suggestion is simple. “Just take things lightly”. See, office is just part of your life and not your life as whole. If you’re boss is yelling at you. Its not because, he doesn’t like you, its just because, his boss would have yelled at him.
If you’re smart enough you’ll stay calm. Simple.
Yes, you read it right. The second important place where anger is most effectively prevailing is in a beautiful relationship.
Yes, relationships are beautiful. But unfortunately because of anger issues, relationships tend to loose its value over a period of time.
Before getting into a relationship, you’re ready to sacrifice anything for you’re loved one’s. But once after getting into relationship sacrifices disappear and suffering prevails.
Do you know why?? Simply because you’re anger and egotistic attitude just won and you lost your beautiful relationship.
Relationship is all about educating each other and living a balanced life. I understand sometimes things gets worse, but you shouldn’t go apart. Rather, you need to understand each other better and apologise and accept each other’s mistakes.
If both are in anger never argue. Rather, one should be calm than arguing. Next day, after things get settled. You need to apologise, if its your mistake, If you value your relationship more than anything else. Apologise and educate your partner as to, how important relationship is, above anger to you.
This way, you will not only hold on to your beautiful relationship, but also gain more trust from your partner.
Life is very important. If you don’t know how to handle anger, you’ll end up as a loser. But if you know, you’ll be respected and will lead a balanced life.
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